March 11, 2008 by Lifepainter
It’s been a time of retooling for me. Getting to that age for women that is the Big M word, and now that I’m in it, there, I’m startled by just how big a ‘change’ in life it really is. Wondering why more women don’t talk about it, but that isn’t quite the focus of this blog so I won’t fill it up with all my thoughts and reflections – maybe that is another blog I might make. My attention is by necessity refocused then on some pro-active work towards making this change a bit more positive and upbeat while I continue to look in the mirror and no longer recognize who is looking back at me.
For weeks now, no more like several months, I’ve been fascinated by the amount of talent out there blogging about homemaking skills; crafting, needlework, sewing, beadwork, decorating and well the list goes on and on. But I’m particularly struck by how a new generation of young women have taken up the old arts and brought amazing new flair to their creations. I have long crocheted, but pretty basic kinds of afghans, baby blankets, hats, scarves. I have made a few afghans which is probably more king size bedspreads. It takes me 6 months working consistently to finish one. I put down the crochet hooks several years ago and now that I am picking them up again, I am fascinated to find how much the ‘old crochet’ has become the ‘new crochet’.
There are amazing types of yarn out there now, and crochet projects have taken on a whole new life in the hands of the new generation. There is a yarn type for everything from elegant, to classic, to standard, to fun, to whimsical. New patterns being made, new ideas being tried and it’s become an industry of it’s own.
I remember how startled I was to watch the old fashioned scrapbooking become a new industry in the hands of the younger set. Quilting became it’s own kind of industry with amazing fabrics. And now I am watching the transformation of another industry in needlecrafts, crocheting, knitting, felting, needlepoint. I’m wowed!
My daughter has become particularly talented in her scrapbooking. I think it kept her sane during her husband’s first Iraq deployment and is keeping her sane now in his second Iraq deployment. I can well understand the need to be doing something with your hands to help calm the worries, and I was pleased she found a niche for that with scrapbooking. She has made some wonderous scrapbooks. I think I’ll take a photo of one of the miniature scrapbooks she made for me and show it here.
My older daughter has made a transformation for her entire family in taking them vegan and learning to find the food products, cook them and develop a pantry and a whole new repetoire of recipes and approaches to eating healthy food. Over the years, I have attempted modifications, and have been proud of my efforts, but daughter has gone the full gamut and has become what I consider to be an expert in the art of vegan. It’s more than just eating in a certain way, it’s a way of life and living with food and products that are free of animals or animal products or animal testing or animal abuse.
My son took himself on a serious regimen of transformation several years ago, dropping a lot of weight and becoming a tall, thin man, inclined towards athletic sports of basketball, soccer, skiing, snow boarding, and several other adventursome activities and sports.
I’m thrilled to see the directions my now grown children are taking their lives and believe me it’s not quite the same world at all as the one of their mother, as the one of their grandmother. My two oldest granddaughters are now sixteen years old and are the newer generation. I love seeing the fresh new approaches the young and younger generation bring to the table.